when you finally meet....

doesn't it make you feel good when you know that you have someone to share all your thoughts, opinions, adventures, a person like, someone you love, to be precise, a lifetime partner.



and doesnt it feel good when faith permits that you and that person you have spent with so many minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, or even years of texting and communicating ends up good, when you know that both of you have already made a connection to each other, a bond between two human beings, a love to share to each other..



but doesn't it feel so damn bad, when all that time wasted on that person, just goes to waste, when you finally meet, and he/she just suddenly slowly turns back away..



one thing i dont get about the society, is that we want to be loved by someone, hey, who doesn't want to be loved right? but like i said the one thing i dont like about it is when both of you already have a bond with each other, and when you get to meet one another it just goes down the drain, just because, one of you dont like the way the other may walk, talk, eat, dress, behave, and ofcourse, the way the person LOOKS..



why do we even bother to say that we want the ONE to come by in our lives, but when the ONE comes by, and he/she just doesn't fit the criteria that you are looking for in a person, we tend to just go back to being a loner, and start looking for love again...



we can never really tell who we can love and who we cant love.. i know, that we all want someone to love, but, does it really matter what that person looks like, yeah, looks can be a plus factor in a person. however, if what we want in the one we are really looking for, is just the looks, it may not really be love at all, it may be just infatuation.



there was once a saying that every mankind is unique, has it's own beauty.. just for me, i dont think there is a person who really is that ugly, maybe there is, but maybe all the need is just a little make-over.. take it from these quotes i like..



+ "beauty is skin deep"
+ "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"



why would anyone make those quotes if it were'nt true? like, yeah, your partner or the person you like may look so hot, so great, and just so damn fine. but what if his/her attidude is not as pretty and hot as they look, like they may even hurt you in the long run.. im not saying that we dont have ambitions, we all want what's the best, the cream of the crop, but we cant have it all.

all i want to say is that, when the time comes that, that special someone we have been looking for all this time, has indeed come, dont just let it go, just because the person is ugly, dumb, or whatever you may not like about them when you meet. REMEMBER THIS, some people i know, fall into love, just through texting, and then when they meet, they just break up.. what's with that?? don't you get it, you fell IN love with that person even though the only thing between you two were just your cellphones, and now your just going to waste all your precious moments through text's just because you saw how he/she walks, talks, eats, dress, behaves, and ofcourse, the way the person LOOKS..



yeah, you do have a choice on who you want to love, but does that one you love, love's you too like the way you do?



think about it..


**this applies to textmates, phone-pals, pen-pals, chat-mate, and even email-mate!! hehehe..
**this is only my opinion..

..mlc..